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Wedding Cufflinks: The Complete Guide for Grooms, Groomsmen & Fathers

Groom fastening an engraved gold cufflink on his wedding morning

The Moda London Guide

Wedding Cufflinks, Made Personal

He’ll fasten them on the morning of the wedding, then keep them for every anniversary that follows. Engraved and hand finished in England, beautifully boxed and ready to give.

★★★★★Loved by couples and grooms across the world
  • Free engraving
  • Live preview before you order
  • Luxury gift box included
  • Hand finished in England
  • Priority delivery available

Add his initials, your wedding date, or a few quiet words, and a small pair of cufflinks becomes something he keeps forever. A quiet reminder of the morning he married you, and every year that follows.

In short

Wedding cufflinks are personalised cufflinks, worn by the groom and given to the groomsmen, best man, ushers and fathers. Most couples go for the gift set, which pairs engraved cufflinks with a matching tie clip. Silver suits a classic, understated look, while gold feels warmer and a little more of a statement. You pick one of our wedding engraving designs, see it on the cufflinks with a live preview before you order, then choose Standard or Priority delivery.

The gift

The gift that becomes part of the day

Most wedding gifts are opened once. This one is worn. He puts them on as he’s getting ready, they catch the light in the photographs, and they come back out for every anniversary and black tie evening for years afterwards.

There's a moment when he opens the box and realises someone planned this for him. That's the real gift, and it stays with him long after the day. It's why brides, parents and grooms keep coming back to them.

The party

Who wears them, and who gives them

The Groom

Usually given by the bride or his parents, engraved with the wedding date, initials, or a private message.

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Groomsmen & Best Man

A considered thank you from the groom, especially when each pair is personalised for the role or initials.

For groomsmen →

Father of the Bride / Groom

From the couple, as a quiet thank you for everything that came before the day.

For fathers →

Ushers & Page Boys

For a wedding party that feels considered, coordinated and complete.

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Plenty of grooms pick one design for the whole party and set themselves apart by finish. Gold for him, silver for everyone else.

The finish

Gold or silver?

Both are beautiful choices. The right finish depends on the suit, the wedding style and how much presence you want the gift to have.

Silver

  • Best with navy, grey and charcoal
  • Crisp and modern
  • The classic, can't go wrong choice
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Gold

  • Best with black tie, cream and tan
  • Warm and confident
  • For when you want it noticed
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The set

Cufflinks alone, or the gift set?

For a wedding, most people go for the set. The matching tie clip finishes the look, and the gift feels complete when he lifts the lid. Cufflinks and tie clip together, boxed, with a card to write on.

It’s also better value than buying each piece separately, which is why it’s the option most couples choose.

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Make it personal

Nine wedding engraving designs

Choose a wedding engraving design, add initials, a date, names, roles or a short message, then preview it on the cufflinks and tie clip before you order. Engraving is included.

Something bespoke?

Have a family crest, symbol or artwork of your own? Upload your design and we’ll let you know what’s possible.

Personalise yours

No guesswork

See it before you order

Type in your details and watch them appear on the cufflinks and the matching tie clip, right there on screen. The preview shows how your engraving will be positioned before you place your order.

Choosing

Which design for whom

  • The groom. Initials & Wedding Date, or Names Together.
  • The best man and groomsmen. Signature Initials, or a Personal Message with their role.
  • A father. Classic Monogram, or a few private words.
  • A keepsake for the two of you. Classic Wreath.

Find your design →

The timing

When to order

Everything is engraved to order, checked by hand and sent tracked. You'll see an estimated delivery date on every product page.

StandardPlenty of time? Order on Standard and relax.
PriorityWedding close? Choose Priority at checkout for faster processing.

A good rule of thumb: order the cufflinks when you order the suits. Leave a little extra time for a full party set or a bespoke design.

On the day

How to wear cufflinks

  1. Start with a double cuff shirt, the kind where the cuff folds back on itself.
  2. Line up the four buttonholes and fold the cuff together.
  3. Push the cufflink through both layers. The fixed back holds it in place, with nothing to turn or fasten.
  4. Finish with the matching tie clip, worn between the third and fourth shirt buttons.

Good to know

Questions, answered

How does the engraving work?
Pick one of our wedding engraving designs and type in your details: initials, a date, a name, a role or a short message. The live preview shows it on the cufflinks and the matching tie clip as you go, so you know exactly how it'll look before you buy. Engraving is free.
What are the cufflinks made of?
Stainless steel at the core, plated in gold or silver and polished to a mirror shine. Each pair is engraved and hand finished in England, then presented in a gift box.
Gold or silver for a wedding?
Silver is the classic, versatile choice and works beautifully with navy, grey and charcoal. Gold is a touch warmer and bolder, and lovely with black tie, cream and tan.
Should groomsmen have matching cufflinks?
They look wonderful together in the photographs. Plenty of grooms choose one design for the whole party and set themselves apart with a different finish.
Can you engrave a family crest or my own design?
Yes. Upload your custom design and we'll take it from there. Bespoke pieces take a little longer, so leave some extra time.
How far in advance should I order?
Everything's made to order, and each product page shows an estimated delivery date. Give yourself a comfortable buffer, and if the wedding is close, choose Priority at checkout.
Where do you ship?
We ship across the UK, and to the United States, Canada and Australia. If your country isn't listed, get in touch before you order and we'll let you know what we can do.
Groom in a black tuxedo adjusting his engraved gold cufflink on the wedding day

Ready to give

Find his pair

The cufflinks he wears on the day, then keeps for every anniversary after. Engraved and hand finished in England, with a live preview before you order.

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